It gives in site and help with SPD. Why, funny you should ask. But anger itself is also a signal for an unsolved problem about which the child believes there is injustice. Nothing is ever closed and done with no matter how much people of a certain political persuasion wish it were true. As long as you are not abusing your child it is none of my affair how you raise your child.
The Spanking Debate is Over
Parenting him like my other children was making him worse. We take it one day at a time with as much understanding and patience as we can possibly muster. It was experienced by me as a degree of rape. If you stand for nothing, then life was nothing. No passive exclusion or loss of privileges stopped him, indeed, it only enraged him to further acts of destruction.
A Tribute to Jordan Riak
Be careful not to make unrealistic threats of punishment "Slam that door and you'll never watch TV again! When I first smacked my child it was a considered move. Within the spanking literature, two such alternative explanations have been proposed. It is very difficult reversing what I had done, when I thought it was the right thing to do. I should spank my angry child , you say?
In climate science, for example, there are hundreds if not thousands of variables but the models reduce to a mere handful due to computational complexity. It sounds like you are doing a great job as a Mom. I am only just at the beginning of this adventure with my 6 year old daughter and am not getting good response from our family doc, pediatrician and school. He cried after and came to me and wanted on my lap and we had a talk. It may also help to understand that very angry children are often very intense children temperamentally. And our children are in pain—because their anxiety is too much, because the world around them is too much, because their negative feelings are too much.